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Saturday, May 27, 2017

A Benefit of Magnanimity

Our opinions sometimes inform our personal identities.  Changing your opinion on some subjects may also require you to change how you self-identify.  Changing an opinion on these issues may also cause you to lose your membership in a group.  On some issues, changing your opinion might cause your social group to ostracize you.   It isn't easy to change a position you took publicly.

When many people hold the same opinion, they will not all abandon it at once. Some people may hold an opinion more because they belong to a group that holds the opinion than because of any particularly well thought out rationale.  Some people will switch on an issue before others.  

We can treat people changing their beliefs in different ways.  One approach may be to hector them for taking so long to come around.  While they might be done holding the opinion, we might not be ready to stop bashing them for holding it in the first place.  This sends a terrible message to persons thinking about making the jump.  It tells them that they may lose standing in their current community of belief and not be welcomed into another.  Publicly criticizing others for taking too long to change their opinion seems likely to make it harder for others to take the jump.

Magnanimity seems a better approach.  It keeps the focus on the beliefs at issue instead of on the person holding the belief.  It also gives others an incentive to move to your side.

With that said, I'd like to announce that I've changed my mind:  I will now use the Oxford comma.  I'm still evolving on one or two spaces after a period.

Posted by Benjamin P. Edwards on May 27, 2017 at 09:01 PM | Permalink

Comments

Welcome to the fold!

Posted by: anon | May 28, 2017 9:56:06 AM

Quotation marks inside or outside periods and commas (inside appears more popular these days, but I prefer outside, as it's more aesthetically appealing)?

Posted by: Patrick S. O'Donnell | May 28, 2017 6:36:39 PM

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